C# is it realy simple ?

i don't really know anything about it . i just started to learn .

i could really do the simple thing and pay 6000$ for a course .

but i trying the autodidactic way to do it . as my friend set it , in this era of information

You Can Learn Any Thing . its really exiting . there is manuals all over the net.
pdf's youtube explanatory films ect. wish me good luck

C# is it realy simple ?

Altitude is everything -Body Language

The fact person just saying that does not make this saying wrong.

Look around you in every place in every crowed of people there is people that ranks in status levels. What I mean is that You have some kind of social ranking.
That rank will determine how people will treat you. if you will go to lunch
And observe your co-workers there will always be cliques - a group of people
That hangs together. Watch carefully there will always be one more dominate.
The one that leave the table and everyone is following.

Most people intelligent or not are a folk. They tend to move in group.
They follow that person for a cretin reason its not intellectual its combination of few things poise, determination voice intonation ,body language . Stance physical
Handling.and gaze/stare .
The point that things is vary from place to place. Some things are the same
Everywhere :
Body Movement- Very slow its like 0.75 speed than the average guy/girl
Intonation- slow and very clear tone with accurate pronunciation
Stance – poised stance chin slight up, open stance the chest area is open
Gaze- when you talk always look the person in the eye I tend to look him
On the nose bridge where the eye brows connects is even more powerful gaze
It feels like someone see thing beyond like you look into their soul .

my advice is for this Metter imitate than make it better

Study that person to the letter. See what is working and what is not.

Than apply it. After a while you will not have to fake it you become that.

A good place to learn all those stuff is David DeAngelo - Body Language

In his lecture he refer to dating and women but it sort of the same thing
You can project it to other areas in your life, such as work relationships and dating .

You can learn a lot from it .i sure learned a lot.

why do you need this blog ?

i don't know actually, maybe your boss treating you like the office clown , maybe there is a co worker that steals your ideas and makes them look like his own. maybe at work your status is " expandable". maybe you are the "office loser" and co workers make fun of you regardless to how much good you are at your job . if you had reached ,searched Google for answers ,something is wrong , you feel a little off. you acts at your work place not as freely as you acts at home in front of your family ,wife ,kids. and you wish you had, but you feel like the control is not there.

how do i know ?

ive been there alright . i did all the wrong things that had me all those things the i wrote above
i was about to quit that job. and than something inside me was driven me to deal with this and seek answer . i gathered a lot of knowledge through books audio books etc. and than use all this knowlede to deal with my problems and there were a lot of them . i got throgh two office bullies that worked together to terrorize me for two years the effect was that i was week i did my job poorly and was feeling like an ass , it projected to my private time i broke up with a woman that loved me so much because i could not stand my self , did not loved my self and thus didn't had love for anyone .

i hit rock bottom and than i got stronger . i acted with cold vengeance using all my knowledge to front those guys carefully finding their soft spot and attacking them even if they did not knew it was me .

i agree i was harsh but in war thats how you act.