Thursday, May 1, 2008

Altitude is everything -Body Language


The fact person just saying that does not make this saying wrong.

Look around you in every place in every crowed of people there is people that ranks in status levels. What I mean is that You have some kind of social ranking.
That rank will determine how people will treat you. if you will go to lunch
And observe your co-workers there will always be cliques - a group of people
That hangs together. Watch carefully there will always be one more dominate.
The one that leave the table and everyone is following.

Most people intelligent or not are a folk. They tend to move in group.
They follow that person for a cretin reason its not intellectual its combination of few things poise, determination voice intonation ,body language . Stance physical
Handling.and gaze/stare .
The point that things is vary from place to place. Some things are the same
Everywhere :
Body Movement- Very slow its like 0.75 speed than the average guy/girl
Intonation- slow and very clear tone with accurate pronunciation
Stance – poised stance chin slight up, open stance the chest area is open
Gaze- when you talk always look the person in the eye I tend to look him
On the nose bridge where the eye brows connects is even more powerful gaze
It feels like someone see thing beyond like you look into their soul .

my advice is for this Metter imitate than make it better

Study that person to the letter. See what is working and what is not.

Than apply it. After a while you will not have to fake it you become that.

A good place to learn all those stuff is David DeAngelo - Body Language

In his lecture he refer to dating and women but it sort of the same thing
You can project it to other areas in your life, such as work relationships and dating .

You can learn a lot from it .i sure learned a lot.

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